tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post2278785676303326441..comments2024-03-07T01:09:06.670-08:00Comments on Conversations: My Child is GaySujatha Sathyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comBlogger142125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-69410997677127636832013-07-07T09:39:08.723-07:002013-07-07T09:39:08.723-07:00Wow! Am i humbled or what reading your response! T...Wow! Am i humbled or what reading your response! Thank you Sampada. Your appreciation means a lot to me :) <br />Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-53208674812180105322012-08-16T21:15:08.148-07:002012-08-16T21:15:08.148-07:00Hi Sujatha... I just chanced upon your blog yester...Hi Sujatha... I just chanced upon your blog yesterday through a friend's and just got hooked.I have been digging through your archives and reading all of your posts.. you are just amazing! The topics you choose,the clarity of thoughts that you have have left me in awe.I am following you !<br /><br />As for this topic, I completely agree with the term intellectual pity, something that doesnt come straight from the heart, but comes from the mind.There is a long way for us to go before we reach that open-mind,large-heart state.<br /><br />Keep writing !<br /><br />Samrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07899334711125410923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-85257998840772939862012-07-08T09:46:48.153-07:002012-07-08T09:46:48.153-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Alisharhttp://www.buzzle.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-41716332349706418402012-06-08T21:19:14.483-07:002012-06-08T21:19:14.483-07:00thank you for your response.
i wouldnt need the n...thank you for your response. <br />i wouldnt need the number & the email add thoughSujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-44261089540104371322012-06-08T21:15:09.607-07:002012-06-08T21:15:09.607-07:00thank you so much for your nice words. i am glad y...thank you so much for your nice words. i am glad you found my blog worth your time :)Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-33481520813106765752012-06-08T07:18:16.235-07:002012-06-08T07:18:16.235-07:00I discovered your web site via Google while lookin...I discovered your web site via Google while looking for a related subject, lucky for me your web site came up, its a great website. I have bookmarked it in my Google bookmarks. You really are a phenomenal person with a brilliant mind!Gay Relationshipshttp://www.dateats.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-39587589012870179652012-06-07T04:20:11.905-07:002012-06-07T04:20:11.905-07:00i and my son move to florida after my divorce from...i and my son move to florida after my divorce from my husband and now my son become gay because there are lot of gays in the new area we went to, I have tried everything to stop him from associating with the gay guys but he has already be coverted and even have a gay lover. i tell this to my friend from Africa who introduced me to this great spell caster who help me cast the spirit out of him and i am the happiest mom today. so i will advice you to contact the man on Vadoospell@gmail.com or call his number +2347054457050 he can help youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-66792408987661504912012-05-14T03:42:59.783-07:002012-05-14T03:42:59.783-07:00very deep poem and says so much!! thanks for putti...very deep poem and says so much!! thanks for putting his thoughts here Shukoor. appreciate itSujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-87992597875413925622012-05-13T16:10:50.230-07:002012-05-13T16:10:50.230-07:00Nice post...
Khalil gebran's one poem below......Nice post...<br />Khalil gebran's one poem below.....<br /><br /> "Your children are not your children.<br />They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.<br />They come through you but not from you.<br />And though they are with you, they belong not to you.<br />You may give them your love but not your thoughts.<br />For they have their own thoughts.<br />You may house their bodies but not their souls,<br />For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,<br />Which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.<br />You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.<br />For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.<br />You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.<br />The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite.<br />And He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.<br />Let your bending in the archer's hands be for happiness;<br />For even as He loves the arrow that flies,<br />So He loves the bow that is stable." <b> -Khalil Gebran</b>TPShukooRhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08684164300681685202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-54043927635192947002012-04-20T11:42:59.190-07:002012-04-20T11:42:59.190-07:00Accept-and-Move-on. My daughter is gay and is mar...Accept-and-Move-on. My daughter is gay and is married to a wonderful woman. I love them both. Their relationship is about love. How can you love your daughter one day and not the next. I don't understand that concept but understand it exists. I love both my daughters and I wish them wonderful futures full of joy and success.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-81897725477310552342012-02-24T07:54:01.756-08:002012-02-24T07:54:01.756-08:00haven't heard or read Lihaaf. Will try and rea...haven't heard or read Lihaaf. Will try and read. Sounds interesting.Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-25605976012357395562012-02-23T23:02:40.180-08:002012-02-23T23:02:40.180-08:00"Mian biwi raazi , to kya karega kazi", ..."Mian biwi raazi , to kya karega kazi", we used to hear this in our growing years. Being gay or lesbian , may amount to deviant sexual behaviour, as sociologists might put it, but basically it remains a question of preference and choice , though maybe some inexplicable reasons exist behind it. In our time, the boy-girl meeting raised eyebrows. Gay or lesbian relationship could not be even thought of. Ismat Chugtai was far ahead of times when she wrote a short story -Lihaaf.aarkayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04245016911166409040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-450208734759107642012-02-01T18:47:22.637-08:002012-02-01T18:47:22.637-08:00i understand - it must have been a very tough batt...i understand - it must have been a very tough battle for you - for so long. i agree - love is stronger and sincerely hope that everything works out well for you. god bless youSujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-14688754618913198442012-02-01T17:59:53.203-08:002012-02-01T17:59:53.203-08:00I am going to come out to my mom in 2 months. I kn...I am going to come out to my mom in 2 months. I know she will accept me even though she is very conservative. <br /><br />I have fought this tough battle for many years now and am much stronger now. I think this whole process will make my mom and family much stronger too, because real love is stronger than everything!<br /><br />Human beings need to love and respect, then only as a society will we be much stronger, peaceful and truly powerful. <br /><br />CheersAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-67054651131084374302011-12-31T05:22:12.915-08:002011-12-31T05:22:12.915-08:00@Amrita: oh is it Amrita? hmmmm.
i think such clos...@Amrita: oh is it Amrita? hmmmm.<br />i think such close contacts does impact our responses to an issue like this one. i have not known a SINGLE person so far.Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-85713195993883510822011-12-31T04:16:26.170-08:002011-12-31T04:16:26.170-08:00We made a short film in college titled "Main ...We made a short film in college titled "Main Aadmi hoon aur main aadmi se pyaar karta hoon"! It showed me how difficult it is to exhibit your sexual preferences in public.. For most who do not know, homosexuality is caused by three factors,<br />Genetic<br />Post abuse/extreme trauma<br />and<br />By choice...<br /><br />Thanks Sujatha for sharing something like this (love and hugs...)<br /><br />PS. I had a senior bhaiya in college who was a proclaimed gay. I also do know a few who are lesbians and bisexuals.<br /><br />Love,<br />Indie :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-48254424190778907602011-12-30T01:45:16.366-08:002011-12-30T01:45:16.366-08:00@Mi: my respects to you for the last line
and ye...@Mi: my respects to you for the last line <br /><br />and yes, that is what i have heard that inherently we are all bi-sexual!Sujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-24882810952458327602011-12-29T19:30:45.089-08:002011-12-29T19:30:45.089-08:00this is a fantastic post!
Frankly speaking, at ti...this is a fantastic post! <br />Frankly speaking, at times, I do feel that I may have a different orientation, but I realise, when it comes to only "Sexual Orientation", it is got to be only one and that is 'straight', rest everything is curiosity!<br />I totally am in love with a female because I think she is exactly what I am not! So she completes me.<br /><br />If you talk about physical intimacy, then I would say, no! Because sometimes, only connection of the heart, mind and soul is enough!<br />So usually, gay relationships develop following an emotional bonding. The 100% surrender act in any relationship is getting physical. So ultimately, people end up having different sexual orientation, or the not-so-straight sexual orientation!<br /><br />But one should know that "procreation without pleasure, and pleasure without procreation" is wrong!<br /><br />So we should abide by what nature intended us to do and follow the same. <br />Ofcourse there is no harm in loving or falling in love with people of same sex, I feel. But if one surrenders to the sexual aspect, then, in most of the cases there is no coming back!<br /><br />Inherently, every individual is bi-sexual. !<br /><br />@Sujatha: If you want to know more about how gays think, ask me. The person I look upto is Gay. But she is the most wonderful human being ever! :)<br /><br />Also, I would totally support my kid, if he/she were gay! :)Mihttp://metagravity.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-88524617769861264772011-12-28T00:25:45.410-08:002011-12-28T00:25:45.410-08:00@Jenny: naah that's ok Jenny. you can respond ...@Jenny: naah that's ok Jenny. you can respond whenever you find time or are free. better late than never :)<br /><br />i agree with your response & i really hope i can "live" out each word you've said. at this point in time,seems improbable but i guess once i am actually there, things might be different. that's true - kuch toh log kahenge...cant stop living for them. be selfish & be happy is a good mantra to live bySujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-7999496853911595282011-12-27T23:38:55.802-08:002011-12-27T23:38:55.802-08:00The thought of a male with a male or a female with...The thought of a male with a male or a female with a female is replusive to us, becase simple we are not gay.. just like the thought of a male with a female is replusive to those who are gay, becuase they are gay..<br /><br />also, easier said than done.. but if we consider the sexual preference of a friend/child, in the same lines as a life partner preference or a career preference.. something which they want.. and something we dont have a say in.. it would probably make it less difficult to accept it.. <br /><br />And about society and people.. I think its time we should stop thiking about them.. after all each one of us as only one life, and as long as we are here, we have to make the best of it.. be selfish and be happy.. Society and people no way figure in our and our kids life.. its all about priorities.. making ur kids happy is more imp, or wht people would say is more imp??<br /><br />a very touchy topic, but a great read Sujatha.. wanted to comment on this from quite sometime, but scrolling down on the 100+ comments on my phone was tough, so was waiting to get to my laptop .. so the delay :-))Jennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13646466740681280522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-55544474315559291732011-12-26T04:18:41.549-08:002011-12-26T04:18:41.549-08:00@Anupama: that is really nice Anupama to know abou...@Anupama: that is really nice Anupama to know about your friend. <br /><br />yes it is very confusing for someone like me who knows NO ONE from the community. may be i too will reach that understanding some daySujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-55833814420494374942011-12-26T01:06:03.591-08:002011-12-26T01:06:03.591-08:00Sujatha,
I know someone really close to me who cla...Sujatha,<br />I know someone really close to me who claims to be gay. He actually told his parents so, so that they dont look for a girl for him.<br /><br />Now see, he is a brilliant scientist. He is excellent company. Witty, Intelligent, Handsome, Smart, Internet Savvy, Loving, Caring, protective... anything we all are. You cannot notice any difference from a normal guy. <br /><br />I cant believe he is gay. It is not that gay men are feminine. They are as normal as you and me.. and the guy right next to you could be gay. Its very confusing.Anupama K. Mazumderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03860574609893186316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-20514256055897823482011-12-24T20:30:45.997-08:002011-12-24T20:30:45.997-08:00@Happy: thank you for liking the post@Happy: thank you for liking the postSujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-36242542726997943192011-12-24T08:53:10.192-08:002011-12-24T08:53:10.192-08:00That was so beautifully written!
I agree with ever...That was so beautifully written!<br />I agree with every word you say!♪♪Happy Go Lucky♪♪https://www.blogger.com/profile/01269515158933060231noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8635337067482720242.post-63595716559460778142011-12-23T06:54:08.328-08:002011-12-23T06:54:08.328-08:00@Team: true, Indian temples do have carvings depic...@Team: true, Indian temples do have carvings depicting it<br /><br />@KayEm: i agree it is very hard to know that you have been judged even before you have got a chance to present yourself. <br />I have peeped into my own heart & brain to understand how i feel about this issue & this post is a mirror to my innermost thoughtsSujatha Sathyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00448034391267400236noreply@blogger.com