Showing posts with label corruption. Show all posts
Showing posts with label corruption. Show all posts

22 March 2011

Corruption

One weekend, when Sathya’s friends had come over, they began discussing the land scam that shocked our state. It involved the son of a BJP minister. His friend said something simple but insightful, “If fathers stop leaving property to their sons, there won’t be corruption”. Is that so simple? Can corruption, that has plagued our country for so long, & in such enormous proportions, be tackled at the level of a family? Can we ask fathers not to leave their property to their sons? I’d thought corruption was a systemic problem; it needed a 360 degree treatment. Isn’t India one of the Top 10 Most Corrupt Countries in the world?

A philosophical look at corruption is that its manifestations are severe in societies that have seen periods of deprivation. If I’ve been hungry for 4 days & not eaten a morsel, on the 5th day, if I’m offered a lavish spread, I’d stuff my face with all that I can lay my hands on! A society that has seen days of penury laps up every opportunity to accumulate wealth. A father, who has seen days of struggle & hardship, tries very hard to ensure his child doesn’t go through the same ordeal. He wants to acquire, by hook or by crook, all that he sees. The son’s secured future becomes a testimony to the father’s hard work. He builds an empire of abundance. Land, gold, cash, cars, houses, everything is amassed to the maximum extent possible & in the minimum time available.

If there was no inheritance, they needn’t bend backwards to build up their bank balance. All they had to do was give their children good education. Give them wings & they will fly. But the reality is fathers spend their lives making money for their “suputra”. Sons spend their lives enjoying the riches. The vicious cycle continues. For those who become rich, the sons have the security of dad’s loot to lead their lives. Those who don’t become rich, slog away in a 9-5 job trying to make ends meet. The unfortunate fathers suffer a feeling of inadequacy that they couldn’t do anything for their children. Hence the slightest opportunity that presents itself where they can make money, they snatch it. Who hasn’t heard of human greed?

Once the pressure comes down on the father to stockpile money for his son, the pressure goes up on the son to study, to pursue a career & to make an honest living out of his life. After all, he does not then have uske baapdaada ki jaaydaad to fall back on. Khud kamao khud khao. But these so-called simple solutions are very hard to implement. It needs a change of mindset. But attitudes don’t change overnight. It usually takes years & years of awareness & education.

The ones who don’t take a bribe in India become a laughing stock. There is a case in my husband’s own family. There are 2 people in the state forest dept. The older one is retired, the younger one still in service. Everyone laughs about how, sarkari kaam mein ‘uncle’ made no money; the other one is admired, “yane duddu madidarey gotta?” You know how much money he has made?!

A lady I know keeps grumbling about how her father didn’t make any money as a Jail officer, he did not make enough to even construct a house, & how he is still living in a leased place. What should’ve been a thing of pride is a source of great pain & shame. They’d rather the upright man had misused his position. They could’ve at least had their “own” house by now!

Unless this attitude changes, corruption can’t be controlled.

06 May 2010

Carpe diem!!!

I had not watched a single film of Puneeth till I met Sathya. I have watched every film of Puneeth after I met Sathya. I know them both since the past 5 years!

Not withstanding “Prithvi” & his immense admiration for Puneeth, if Sathya becomes a politician, he would be the most corrupt politico that has ever lived on the face of this earth. And I would be the most travelled wife on the face of this earth!

Most people are corrupt because they are greedy for more money. They want more money because they want to prove their one-upmanship to the rest of their clan - bigger car, bigger land, bigger house, and an even bigger collection of jewelry. Their statement is: I have a bigger everything! I am better than you.

I would not like being the wife of a corrupt person. Who wants gold & diamonds & car & bungalow at the cost of work ethics, moral values& conscience? Not me. Never fancied or longed for any of these.

But what if Sathya, being Sathya (chalu, smart, smooth talker) says, “Here’s the deal. You can travel all you want, wherever you want, whenever you want with my hard-earned ‘ghooos’. I ask nothing of you but your ‘janam janam ka saath”. Hypothetically speaking, of course.
Would I still refuse? No … not the janam janam ka saath wala idea. But the moolah with which he could fund my travels? Would I still say NO to his haram ki kamai? Would he be able to buy my silence, my allegiance? Good question.

And here’s my super quick & easy answer: No! I would not refuse!

Just imagine: Going on a world trip, travelling around the globe, seeing every city ever printed on a map, draping every national costume, trying every cuisine, wild nights on a cruise, shuddering on snowy mountains, posing for the lens at exotic locales, dinner in Vegas and breakfast in Mexico, praying in Italy and romancing in Paris, river rafting in New Zealand and scuba diving in Lakshwadeep, shopping in Japan and sleeping in China, …………………………………..these are what my dreams are made of!! How can I let it pass? I could not let this go. Not in my sane mind. No never. Carpe diem!!!

Hypothetical questions…DAMN YOU!